Lots more plumbing

Focusing mostly on getting main in shape and figuring out how to make
the connections flow. The main is pretty much there, going to be a bit
more when I take a shot at federation.

Cargo.toml

@@ -4,9 +4,9 @@ version = "0.1.0"
 edition = "2024"
 
 [dependencies]
-diesel = { version = "2.3.9", features = ["postgres"] }
+diesel = { version = "2.3.9" }
 quinn = "0.11.9"
-fedichat-lib = {path = "../fedichat-lib"}
+fedichat = {git = "https://git.firechicken.net/fedichat/fedichat-lib"}
 tracing = "0.1.44"
 tracing-subscriber = "0.3.23"
 clap = { version = "4.6.1", features = ["derive"] }
@@ -14,3 +14,5 @@ tokio = { version = "1", features = ["full"] }
 serde = { version = "1.0.228", features = ["derive"] }
 thiserror = "2.0.18"
 toml = "1.1.2"
+diesel-async = { version = "0.9.0", features = ["postgres","deadpool"] }
+ctrlc-async = { version = "3.2.2", features = ["termination"] }